Sunday the day of Rest..

Well we take that literally in my house.  We usually just lounge around, and cook, and bake and just eat and watch movies. It's relaxing. But right now the excitment in my house is my son's lovelife, or so called. Ok first so you know me and my children have always been close. I know your thinking yeah right, but yes during those crazy teenage yrs, I had a struggle getting them to say what they felt, but they always did.  You have to remember I was a teen mom, and the lies we tell, and the collaberating we do with our friends to trick our parents into think we are doing something else, and all that comes with being a teenage, i did to a T. That never left me, so when they hit middle school my radar was on and it still is. Now I'm not gonna say they never pulled the wool over my eyes at first, but they always got BUSTED!! I remember over hearing my daughters friend tell her, "how does your mom know everything you do" I just laughed and kept that with me, because I will always find out, but they also always new I had their back no matter what. So my son got to grow up and see both sides, but he was a momma's boy, and I surely didn't want him growing up to be that way. But he got his heart broken by the first girl he loved and I saw first hand what he went through, and that was hard! I tried talking to him, but he didn't want to have any part of it, I knew I had to wait for him to come to me. And he did, he overcame it, but I saw him start to come out of his shell and just keep on going. He is 19 and a hell of an Artist, and he is just know started to get a lil serios with this girl. Now don't get me wrong she is a nice girl, but i had a guard up to, because i didn't want him to get hurt, but she was there for him, but he wasn't, he was with his friends. Now these are his buddies from middle school, that he graduated with and, went through alot with, but Dang he is with them everyday. Now I explained to him that woman don't like when your friends comes first, and you don't make time for them, but he didn't listen. So she just recent;y said that she was done with him, and now he as changed his tune. Now it just makes me laugh cause i saw that coming from the start, but I had to let him find out on his own, and he didn't like it. So now he has started making more time for her, and he got lucky that she still wanted to, but as I sit and watch my kids grow into young adults I sit an amazement. God blessed me with these 3 wonderful people and have trusted in me to do whats right for them, now that hasn't always been the case, but we are still here, alive and kicking.  Well be back shortly my cake is almost done!  Mmmm Cake